Days are made up of moments and every person gets to choose how they will be spent.  It can be tempting to think that there is no other option but to complain and worry and long that things are different than they are.  Life isn’t always ideal.  Maybe it’s at times like that it’s good to say, “God, help me to see things differently than I do right now.”  Maybe what needs to change isn’t that other person or that crummy situation but you.  It is possible to rejoice always but to get there we often need a change of perspective.  It’s funny when it happens.  That which irked you before suddenly becomes beautiful in a strange kind of way.  It hasn’t changed.  What’s changed is the way you look at it and that makes all the difference in the world.